It angers me when people laugh their heads off at the “you were never on top” line. It is truly hurtful to imply that a healthy and common sexual preference of being the not-in-charge-partner is taken as a shot at masculinity and inner strength, when it is nothing to be ashamed off. Grow up, folks. Let’s not go sub -shaming, just as we wouldn’t go gay-shaming or lesbian-shaming. Let’s not glorify that Mayism just as we wouldn’t glorify her telling Ward he “fights like a girl”.